Embracing Equilibrium

Patricia Malay
2 min readJan 18, 2024

As we step into a new year, I always find myself slightly more introspective. It’s a natural time for setting intentions, for casting the mould for new or refreshed aspirations and goals. This year, I’ve chosen a word that encapsulates what I want my approach to be: “Balance.”

Why “Balance”?

In a world that often feels like it’s spinning at a dizzying pace, balance feels more important than ever; it’s a guiding principle, a north star. It’s about finding harmony between work and play, between ambition and contentment, between the digital world and the tangible one around us. It’s a reminder that while pursuing our dreams, we should not lose sight of the small, everyday joys.

Work vs. Play

Over the two decades I’ve spent as a working adult, I’ve often found myself teetering on the brink of burnout, chasing deadlines and milestones. This year, I am committed to drawing a clear line between work and personal time. It’s about quality, not just quantity. By giving myself permission to step back, I aim to infuse my work with energy and the right perspective, thus fostering creativity and efficiency.

Health and Well-Being

Balance also extends to my physical and mental well-being. Incorporating regular exercise, a balanced diet, and mindfulness practices into my daily routine is not just about staying fit; it’s about respecting my body and mind as the invaluable resources they are. This holistic approach to health is crucial for maintaining the stamina and clarity needed to tackle life’s challenges.

Social Connections and Solitude

In this era of constant connectivity, balance means valuing both social interactions and moments of solitude. While maintaining and nurturing relationships is vital, equally important is finding time for self-reflection and personal growth. Balancing social commitments with periods of solitude helps in recharging my emotional batteries and fosters a deeper understanding of myself.

Finding Balance in the Everyday

Finding balance is not a one-time act; it’s a continuous process. It’s about making conscious choices every day. Whether it’s choosing to walk instead of drive, to read a book instead of scrolling through social media, or to spend quality time with loved ones without the distraction of devices — each decision is a step towards a more balanced life.

I am excited to see how the pursuit of balance transforms my experiences and perspectives. It’s about finding that sweet spot where everything aligns — not perfectly, but harmoniously. Here’s to a year of growth, well-being, and, most importantly, balance.

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Patricia Malay

Recently moved to Singapore and have been enjoying it. I spend my downtime catching up to my watch and read lists, planning trips, and exploring my new home.